为什么爱是无私、无我

有一个孩子问父亲什么是爱，为什么爱是无私、无我？
父亲说：“你去拿一杯水。”
小孩去拿了一杯水。
然后父亲说：“去拿一些糖来。”
他将糖拿来，父亲说：“将它们混在一起。”
糖溶入水里，父亲说：“现在你能将糖和水分开吗？”
小孩说：“没办法，我甚至看不到糖跑到哪里了。”
父亲说：“你再仔细看看。”
小孩看了看，但还是看不到任何糖，糖已经溶解了，已经变成水了。
父亲说：“你尝尝看。”
小孩尝了，味道是甜的。
父亲说：“你看，爱就像这样，爱是无私、无我。他们就像糖跟水一样，互相融入对方，你可以尝它，然后就知道水里含有糖，但你无法把它们分开，事实上它们是分不开的，它们在一起是那么的甜美，这就是爱。”

THIS IS ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL SO TRUE !!!!!

A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign which said: "I am blind, please help." There were only a few coins in the hat.


A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see the new words.
Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to the blind boy. That afternoon the man who had changed the sign came to see how things were. The boy recognized his footsteps and asked, "Were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you write?"


The man said, "I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a different way."
I wrote: "Today is a beautiful day but I cannot see it."

Both signs told people that the boy was blind. But the first sign simply said the boy was blind. The second sign told people that they were so lucky that they were not blind. Should we be surprised that the second sign was more effective?


Moral of the Story: Be thankful for what you have. Be creative. Be innovative. Think differently and positively.

When life gives you a 100 reasons to cry, show life that you have 1000 reasons to smile Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear.. Keep the faith and drop the fear.

The most beautiful thing is to see a person smiling¦
And even more beautiful is, knowing that you are the reason behind it!!!

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戒律

我再也不允许自己在半夜三更MSN， facebook了 =）
早睡早起精神好！！！

ABCDEFG

I saw this pm
feel it is cute

ABCDEFG=A Boy Can Do Everything For Girls...

But I dun think so… ==
and the girls there got 's'
so boy….
if this is right… Dun so greedy, lolx

study week lo....

2nd day of study week
wao... really fast...
luckily got study today la...
keep progress wei...
actually got support of friends to study is really
NICE
thanks my friends..
hey...
you all also fight harder ya...
hehe ^^
went QB,
felt happy la, alway hide in usm very bored
hehe
after 2more weeks
gonna end my 1st year life dy
gonna be senior already
i dun want la...
n my neighbour
yea!!! vy noisy
but i like you all so much
hopefully still can same wing ya
really, really, really...
haha!!!
625, 626 ....
i like the time we kia siao so much,....
=)