一篇"男人"看了会沉默的文章

你可知道
要女人清晨醒来
凌乱的面對一個愛的人
是需要有很大的勇氣
你可知道
當女人被男人
去自己的衣服
一絲不掛的在他面前
是需要多少的愛
你可知道
女人爲什麽會背朝你睡
因為她不喜歡看你的背影
如果你以後抱着她睡
她會安心一整個晚上

你可知道
女人把每一次的愛情
當作是初戀
也是這輩子最後一個來愛

你可知道
女人那么愛吃醋不是因為不相信你
而是你在她心中太美好
她不希望這種美好倒映在別的女人眼中
你可知道
深爱你的女人在冲你发火以後
自己卻轉身不斷啜泣

你可知道
當女人頂着哭花的臉
走在街上
不管是不是有人在看她時
她的心已經快要死了
你可知道
她只會對她愛的男人嘮叨
也只會對她在乎的人耍性子
你可知道
她的任性 她的壞脾氣
其實都只是在對你撒嬌
希望你更重視她
你可知道
假若她不愛你
她根本不會對你发火
不會希望你去哄她
更不會為你掉眼淚
因為她不愛的人沒那本事

你可知道
當你離開她
留下她獨自一人
她有多大的期待和恐惧
而這一切都只是因為她愛你
而這一切都因為你还不够懂她
女人知道太多不該知道的事情
男人不知道太多該知道的事情
于是，你們争吵，你認為她脾氣不好，她認為你不够迁就她……
于是，你们冷战，你以為她沒有完全接受你，她以為你不在乎她……
請給她一個拥抱一个吻，用你的拥抱你的吻去化解她心里的悲傷和眼角的泪水。
因為她只是害怕你的冷漠、轉身和安静。。。。。。。。。。

两个深爱的人在一起，就要
互相包容，互相理解，互相体谅，互相信任，
否则当你们真正失去时将会遗憾终生。。。。。。
否则美好的未来也就在你们自己手中泯灭了！。。。。。。
希望每一个男人都能够好好珍惜陪伴在你身边的女人
她们为你付出过，不求回报
却希望你们能够读懂，能够牵着她们的手坚定地走下去
不要让爱你的女人流泪
不要让她伤心
更不要让她绝望和死心！
因为女人一旦真爱了，失去她爱着的人
就意味着失去了整个世界...
女孩子20岁左右是她最美丽的。这时她的心地最善良，她有点成熟，又有点孩子气。
男孩子20左右的时候是他最暗淡的日子，这时什么都没有，不能独立又不想依赖，
挣扎着彷徨着，寻找着自己的位置，
所以如果一个男孩子在他20岁左右的时候遇见了与他年纪相当的女孩子，那一定要珍惜她，
因为这个女孩子是用用自己最美丽的年华陪他走过了最黯淡的日子！
女孩只有陪他走过，女孩将永远幸福下去。

原来。。。

原来

流眼泪不一定要躲着。。。

原来

受伤不一定是坏事！！！

原来

得到想要的，不一定是那么想要的

原来

勤力办活动，也要选择什么活动

原来

每天对自己说的话，还是不一定办到

原来

还搞不清楚，什么是我要的

原来。。。

累的好！！！

昨晚！

不懂怎么

睡觉时，感觉被什么东西压住

记得！！！

喊不出声，双眼睁不开

我拼命的挣扎，

拼命的挣扎！！！

很庆幸

最后成功甩过了

睁开眼睛，

那感觉很恐怖

是梦境吗？

但是！！！

感觉很真实。。。

由于很累！！！

闭上眼睛又休息了！！

11.45am,

被吓醒！！（约了12pm集合）

最快速度梳洗

12pm准时到集合地点

切，还是得等！！（那些迟了还那么大声 (x )

在养老院忙咯

都是在洗厕所

一个阿伯很酷，

我跟他笑三次，

都不睬我，真是的！！！

但是，他的眼神流露出一种寂寞、伤感

可惜我们都没有交流的时间

在想念着谁？

想念着什么？

之前一直那么忙，

部分也是为了今天

我们在赶工（大姐、哥、三姐、我、弟）

要在阿嘛往生过了2年；

阿公的100天前搬家

所以

前后准备功夫不到30天

31/01/2010

的今天

我

搬家了（又忙完一个任务 =)）

然而

却，

家不成家！！！

爸，还是要住老家，

二姐。。。

又不懂发什么神经

已经够累了

拜托！你23岁了耶！！！

除了玩，发脾气，跟朋友喝茶

你还会什么？

。。。。。

不管咯！

很多东西要忙，

没时间管你们了

林小姐，你成熟点啦。。。

新年要到了，

团圆饭在那里勒？

年初一那天，还是老妈的生日。。。

只是想表达出来罢了

别担心我！！

因为我真的很累

很累！！

没时间伤心，

没时间胡思乱想。。。

o(∩_∩)o...哈哈！！！ 累的好。。。

ENDS of war!!!

ENDS!!!

Haha!!! I felt so release and pleasure after all of this. I have promised myself to be active this semester. So, Florence asked me to join helper in MPP(majlis perwakilan pelajar). Previously, I have totally no idea what is this and what am I going to do. During the first meeting, See told us some of the things, but I was still blurred. He said we need to help them to paint the banner, and give support during the campaign. Its sound so interesting to me. So I just join. After that, I heard some friends said, must be alert when joining this kind of activities. I was scared and almost wanted to quit. Thus, I asked them what actually all of this, and they started to explain more details to me. Yea!!! He talked a lot and I was still confusing though. While, I know the purpose of this team is helps Chinese actually, so I decided to have my commitment to this.

After that, several meetings (I absent sometimes, LAZY!!!) were held and we started the banner painting. We also helped to recruit our friends, but actually we failed to convince them. By the ends, there are just few of us and the mantan MPP + some seniors remained.

The actual fighting days were last few days. The few Sat before just 'warming up', haha!!!

Last few days were the most tired days. I don't know there were just how many hours we actually slept. What I know is the whole weeks was really, how to said, TIRED. And luckily this week is management week, all classes were cancel. So we can really have our full commitment to jentera team.

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Monday – Penamaan calon. Accounting society have organized a career talk (compulsory to all accounting students, *hates*). I kept complaining to xbai. K!!! you must hate me so much on this. Paise la!! If you still bei song then you scold me back lo. The career talk, yes! So sad to say I learnt nothing actually. I just went there to sleep. BORED and LAME!!! But I think maybe is my own problem la… == Not acc society problem, is my fault to sleep right? Yea!!!

5pm,

DRUM ROLLS….

WAR STARTs!!!! And JENTERA team started FIGHT

Guys went to hang up the banner and girls accompanied Teng (mass com candidates) distribute flyers to every hostel.

12am, we were told we can back! Walao… unexpectedly, the first thing came in minds "so nice hor, can sleep so early. SEE said we will definitely fight whole days and night, but not really so nice'' "hopefully, will not have phone call suddenly la". Manatau, haven't reached my room, *phone vibrate*

EMERGENCY CALL – "layc, prepare! Go centre! KokLeong fetch us". Walao!!!

So, what came next? Prepared the flyers for whole night, till 5/6am…. (luckily just have 1class at 2pm, so I woke up at 1pm)

~~Roommate's friend told she: " y ur roommate always do helper?" sigh =='''~~ I do actually wonders is it worth to do all of this? ………

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TUESDAY – 2pm -4pm class, 5pm (suppose have basketball training, but cancel, bcz RAIN!!1)

Fight started again at night… 8pm I thinks... same!!! Flyers things…. Some of us was sending messages to all hp numbers. Asked them to vote and for our candidates!!!

Fight!!! Fight!!! Fight!!! Then burger and French fries at 2am…. Continue… fight!!!

Then! Back campus to hanged up the flyers. The foyer just looked like pesta!!! Haha!!! Can see flyers and posters all around the campus. This feeling liked every time during election period. All this things will hanging around the roadside. But, and I never have idea that I will be part of them who have contribution to hang up this flyers… ==

Wed dy………

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WED—6.30am back centre and we slept there. On the floor… 9am, continue sms. 10am, I came back myself and while waiting them to fetch me, I curi tulang abit la. Slept 1hours more when others still fight!! Hehe!!!

Then!!! Ring ring ring!!! " layc, we at campus dy ( I heard those sound… harlo.. harlo… undilah siapa siapa… undilah siapa siap…) omg!!! I need to join? Okay! Called zeshen and yes! I was in!

I was shocked when I saw his car. His car was pasted with banners and posters. And the recording "harlo… harlo… undilah Abel Benjamin Lim. Makan Apple ingatlah Abel, undilah Abel….." Just join the team and we ronda around our campus… haha!!! Then, we walked out to café and distributed to others students…

1 chinese girl said :" I didn't vote" "why" "this is not compulsory, and this is non of my business"

Walao… By the time, I really wanted to ''ki siao'' if everyone think like this, all our effort is wasted. This is what stick in the minds of most Chinese students. This have caused us lost so many votes… Damn!!!

We can do nothings… just say something like your vote is really important and mean a lot to the candidates. @$%$^@! I don't think she bother what I said. Then we ronda around hostel… distributes to the vehicles parking around.. Yea!!! Under hot sun… (No blame! Cz evry1 hope our effort will make a diff)

Then back centre and rest a while. If got chance I sure went to sleep instead of followed them chit chat at there. HAHA!!! Sure la… siao meh, chat anytime also can ma. Prepared flyers can chat, ronda can chat, lunch can chat so free abit, I ran… SLEEP… hehe!!! Yala sure is on the floor, but oklar, still have air-con….

4pm back campus ronda again. This time was funnier. I and Florence followed zeshen n tl. Then they wanted two people life and kicked us out. Huh!! So I and flo just walked out and we went to take bus. More crazy was, we distributed the flyers in the bus.. quite paise actually!! Haha!!! No bothers la, just do it.

Both of us left our hp in his car. Sigh! So we have to wait them come. They didn't appear at the last, so we borrowed hp from bus driver. ==

While they came, Steven car was there also. So we choose steven car. Zs n tl too bad. Haha!!! Ronda again lo… the Job was just ronda ma… Lastly, by the time we wanted to back center. We open the CNY song and played through the "loud speaker" on the road oo… The driver was so nervous and keep asking us stop this stupid thing. Haha!!! But we just played at behind and stop lo after the song… haha!! This called entertain ourselves…

At night, we went to rapat umum. The candidates were giving their speech and we will support and yell for our candidates, in adverse provoke to the opposite. Haha!! Its funny.

Just stayed there for a while and the girls jentera were ordered to take out the banner and flyers around. Haiz… we just hanged up last nite and took it out the other night… ==

Then… go back again… sms again… asked Chinese must remember to come out to vote… (I started scare and worry. How if tomorrow we still lose? HOW if this really happen? So what I done was, PRAY!! May god bless!!)

KitMun arranged and told everyone the place to on duty… 4am slept lo..

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THURSDAY – yes!!! The ELECTION DAY.. and so fast last day dy…. WOW!!!

Ok!! 7.30am "bangun bangun bangun"

Back campus prepared. 8.30am went to vote… yea!!! This is what every students must do… Every vote is important….

Then on duty at konkos. Just sat whole day there and counted the total voters..

Luckily Kelvin Ying came, I slept half an hour and he helped me to jotted down the turn out. Hehe!! Thanks!! Then hor… 2pm liao, hvn't lunch.. omg… luckily got sms with Florence and engkeat if not I will surely die of BORED, SLEEPY and HUNGRY… Then, cheeleng came with lunck, wah! First time So happy to see him, haha!!! After that I asked his help and I went toilet.

SAD CASE!!! Haven't ready… '' TUM''' oops.. oh my goodness…. My hp drop into the toilet bowl… DAMN!!! I took it out, dun worry I was not whole hand went into the bowl. Cz there is a string on my hp, I took it out. Wash it… cz I know it is already gone case…. Tut~~tut~~~ no sad no happy la.. =='''

Went back and for sure, zs n cl laughed at me, so funny I also will laugh la… haiyo… what to do, continue work lo… I was so worried… the turn out rate was still below 20%, konkos there will have more than 60% I think are Chinese. So, mostly absent, what to do? SAD!!!

Almost 5pm still turn out rate was low.. face reality la… 5pm… ENDS!!!

8pm, started count votes…. Haha!!

*process* we just nervous also lo… run from 1 table to another to get the result…

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Long long process…

School result came out first, it was really happy when we knew Kelvin win the TI seat. Then, we waited the final result… Through our calculation.. so happy that Abel Benjamin win also….

Then kept waiting ~~~

During waiting… we just joke, took photo, laughed, chit-chatting….

Finally!!!!! Almost 3am… *tterrlengterrr* final result is out…..

Yea!!! Abel and Kelvin win the seats. CONGRAZ

And is sad to said teng n Vincent lose. But they said they appreciated this opportunity to learn. =)

So… went to MCD have our supper… hehe!!! After that back to centre again to clean up… 5.30am slept last night at there ( our centre )…..

9.00am – bangun bangun!!! Every one woke up and back… Time to end. the time spent together in this whole process is precious and fun and enjoy to me!!! thanks!! yala! dun actually have chance to so crazy together liao, except evy1 still fight next year, ha!! hope we still remember each other and keep in touch.... hey!!! now have facebook ma.... easy la... haha!!

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Okay!!! A really different experience I gains. And actually I do learn from them~~ The mantan mpp…. And actually university election also will bring in some political tactics. Actually we do played fool by ''them''. So, if I was not there, I will never know what is the process and how is the "darkness of politic". Don't think that if you treat a person nice and he will treat you in the same way too. He may end up tikam u… u don't know. Yea!!! Is scary and hate….

Through this, I meet up with new friends who are quite keng I can said. And, actually during the process…. I do doubt what am I doing there? Why so crazy? Is it worth to do so? What I gain?

Many of my friends were laughed at me… Some said kepo…. While, is glad, during the war, I really figure out the answer why I stay?

Yet, by the time we knew the result…If you are not part of us You will never know how pleasure and happy we felt? The feeling is really indescribable…. I appreciated what I learn and the tough time I spend with this jentera team…

But if you asked whether I will continue next year? I can't give a confirm answer. I don't know what will happen next year! Most probably I am still in… hehe!!! Because, yea!!! As I said, I do learn…. And I think there will have a more organized team… see how lo…

2.48am…. sei lo…. Biasa jor 5am sleep….

Everything is end now. kung fu night comes next. Aiyo! I am quite disappointed to this event la. Haiz… I will just finish my job, nothing more. And I need to catch up my homework too~~

NITEZ~~ and layc no more lazy please… you have no time dy… WORK HARD!!! Rmb ur promise… =)

晒蘑菇的故事

今天一个师兄分享了一个故事--

一个老和尚在很晒的太阳下晒蘑菇。一个小和尚看到了就问：“老和尚怎么你一个人在那么大的太阳底下晒蘑菇呢？”

老和尚：“如果不是我，谁来做呢？”

小和尚：“那，为什么老和尚不等太阳没那么晒时才晒呢？”

老和尚：“现在不晒，难道我要等到太阳下山时才来晒吗？”

故事说，新的学期了，我们自己应该规划自己该做的东西，不是自己，等谁来做呢？

规划应该得从现在开始，现在不做，难道等这个学期结束了，才来后悔当初吗?

=)